75-Year-Old Mother Evicts Overstaying Adult Sons: Italy's "Mammoni" Explored

75-Year-Old Italian Mom evicts sons in 40s Mammoni trend

By E.Baloyo , Parent Herald Oct 28, 07:43 am

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In a courtroom decision that has attracted widespread attention, a 75-year-old Italian mother from Pavia secured a legal victory against her two adult sons, both in their 40s, for refusing to leave her home.

This judgment not only brings a familial dispute to a close but also shines a spotlight on Italy's pervasive "Mammoni" phenomenon.

A Familial Dispute With Broad Implications

Residing comfortably in the maternal household, the two sons, 40 and 42 years old, relished the privileges of their mother's care without contributing financially or assisting with household duties.

For years, the elderly mother bore the weight of her home's upkeep, both physically and financially, without any help from her employed sons.

Their continuous dependence, despite being well into adulthood, finally compelled the 75-year-old mother to take a stand.

Judge Simona Caterbi, presiding over the case, ruled in favor of the mother, emphasizing that while parents indeed have responsibilities toward their children, such duties do not extend indefinitely, especially when the offspring are above 40.

With the court's backing, the two adult sons have a deadline of December 18 to find a new abode.

Delving Into Italy's "Mammoni" Phenomenon

The court case, while unique in its own right, is a window into a broader socio-cultural trend in Italy.

The term "Mammoni" refers to adult men who continue to rely heavily on their mothers, often extending into their late 30s and even 40s.

This trend is not an isolated one. In 2022, it was reported that over 2 million Italians over the age of 30 were still enjoying the comforts of their childhood homes.

The numbers are even more telling for younger Italians. As of 2022, a staggering 67.6% of those aged between 18 and 34, or approximately 7 million individuals, were still living with their parents.

These statistics have seen an upward trajectory for decades. For instance, in 1983, only 49% of Italians aged between 18 and 34 lived with their families, a percentage that rose to 60.2% by the year 2000.

Economic factors play a role in this trend. Italy's unemployment rate, as of August 2023, stood at 7.8%. However, the situation was particularly grim for the nation's youth, with a 22.3% unemployment rate among them.

This economic disparity undoubtedly impacts the choices of young adults and their living arrangements.

The European Context of Adult Dependence

When broadening the lens to encompass Europe, Italy is not the sole nation where adult children delay their departure from the parental home.

According to Eurostat data from 2022, on average, Italians bid farewell to their parental homes at the age of 30.

In Croatia, this age extends to an EU-high of 33.4 years. Conversely, countries like Finland, Sweden, and Denmark see their youth venturing into independence much earlier, around the age of 21.

Conclusively, the court case of the 75-year-old Italian mother taking firm action against her overdependent sons is emblematic of a larger societal discussion.

As Italy grapples with its socio-economic realities and its evolving cultural dynamics, the tale of this mother from Pavia serves as a poignant reminder of the challenges and choices faced by Italian families today.