'The Hills' Star Kristin Cavallari Offers Romance Advice & Relationship Secrets

Kristin Cavallari, the former star of the reality TV series "Laguna Beach" and "The Hills," willingly participated in a question and answer activity with Cosmopolitan and Revlon and dished relationship advice to her fans on Twitter. The star also talked about the love of her life, Jay Cutler, and the state of their married life.

Cavallari, who married football quarterback Cutler two years ago, is now mom to Camden, 2, and Jaxon, 1, with a third baby on the way. She reveals that their relationship did develop fast but then she knew that her husband was the one right away. She wrote on her Twitter Q & A: "He told me he loved me after 2 wks & that he wanted 2 marry me aftr 2 months."

The reality TV star, however, said that even though Jay was accustomed to being in the public eye as an athlete, her world in Hollywood took some time to get used to. "The pop culture world was all new for Jay," Kristin revealed, according to US Magazine. "So paparazzi bothered him (still does) and it took a lot of adjusting. He wasn't used to people.... Which can put strain on a relationship unless u have a really solid foundation."

It hasn't been an easy relationship, though, as the couple broke up back in 2011. The parting of ways was short-lived however and when they got back together, they got engaged. Now married for two years, with a growing family to boot, Kristin said that they still make time to do something romantic together, "Light candles and put phones away. Take a bath (doesn't even have to be sexual... or it can!) but it's all about talking and connecting since," she wrote on Twitter.

She admits, however, that like many young families, it is a challenge to keep the romance alive with two young kids. It is important then for couples to communicate. "You can't assume the other knows how u are feeling..." she tweeted, adding, "Learn 2 B a good fighter (or less of one) by saying this makes ME feel...instead of YOU did this. Don't be afraid 2 B vulnerable (hard 4 me!)"

Cavallari also told fans who are currently mourning the loss of a relationship to keep busy. "No social media stalking. Cut them out of your life completely. Go out with your girls, get dressed up, and dance," she said. She knows what she talks about as she has had her heart broken quite too many times, the celebrity admits.